Tips for Building a Network of Fellow Milspouse Students
There is no guidebook for building a military spouse community that consists of fellow students with similar struggles and challenges. Still, you can create a network by being active in strategic ways.
Join Support Groups Online or In Person
While Facebook or Twitter can help you find supportive online groups of milspouses who are also going back to school, you may also be able to find one near where you’re stationed. Military websites like the National Resource Directory and Military OneSource can provide information about Family Readiness Groups in your area.
Attend Local Events
If an art class or a local history lecture looks interesting to you, put it on your calendar and attend. Many milspouses may feel uncomfortable about attending evening events when they aren’t familiar with the area, but often places near bases are safe. Talk to your partner about your desire to strengthen your network and learn about something new. You may find a new friend, too.
Use Military Benefits Fully
Perhaps the best perks of being a military spouse are programs like MyCAA, which can provide grants that make going back to school extremely affordable. Some milspouses qualify for up to $4,000 ($2,000 per fiscal year) for career training, and online schools like MedCerts accept these grants for classes that prepare you for high-demand fields like healthcare and information technology.
Organize Networking Sessions
To meet other milspouse students, you can also organize networking sessions on base. Talk with a café or restaurant about hosting your event, then print up simple flyers with the meet-up information. You may be able to negotiate drink discounts or other incentives to increase attendance.
Research Official Support Programs
Don’t forget about official support programs. The Military Spouse Advocacy Network connects milspouses regardless of location. You can find peers who have walked in your shoes, and you can support others with your experience, too.
Put Your Oxygen Mask on First
When you’re on an airplane, the flight attendants instruct you to put on your oxygen mask first before helping others. It’s the same with your life as a military spouse. You can’t support your partner, your family, or other members of your military spouse community if you don’t care for yourself first.
